The energy of a woman that attracts men. What is female energy and can it really be developed

Differences.
Male energy is point. Points in space do not interfere with each other's existence. In men, independence is inherent and it does not interfere with coexistence.
Feminine energy is space. When women interact, they have to give up part of the space. At the same time, they are intuitively afraid of losing themselves, of dissolving in interaction. When two friends “chirp”, they are not afraid to lose themselves, since their conversation is superficial, does not take up space from each other

This "Energy" approach explains why it is easier for a man with a man to find mutual language: dots do not interfere with each other.
The Japanese proved that men have an innate need to beat, beat, hammer (nails), shoot. That is explosive energy. Therefore, men (unlike women) do not tolerate long, monotonous, monotonous work.
A woman is by nature much more stable and conservative than a man, for she is the guardian and successor of the human race. Therefore, it is more "fluid", spatial. (Female energy is an image of water.) Therefore, it is easier for her to adapt to the changed situation. The result - a woman is more tenacious, as we have already said. The energy of men predetermines their greater activity in comparison with women.

Author of the article: Elena Dmitrieva, a practicing specialist in personal and family relations, trainer of women's programs, energy practitioner specialist. Author of the project “Pozitiv.Online”

How to become a magnet for men. Part one: the state of the mistress.

It's no secret that there are women who enchant with their energy, you always want to be near them and feel their warm aura. Such women are always surrounded by worthy men, they are lucky in love and they are happy in marriage. Yes, yes, such women have discovered a great female secret - they have learned to be a magnet for men! And it’s not just learning one thing, for example, to shoot beautifully with your eyes or skillfully do an erotic massage, it’s much deeper - this is the art of being a woman, always and everywhere in a woman’s state.

At first glance, this may seem simple and banal, but I assure you this is far from being the case. Learning to be a woman always and everywhere in our masculine and sometimes very aggressive world is quite difficult, because you have to solve a lot of men's issues, work in men's positions, enter into negotiations, and even disputes, in general, decide everything and everywhere yourself, and this does not benefit femininity and alluring attractiveness. Male energy will never attract male energy. Only female, will truly attract admiring male glances. To become a magnet for worthy men, you need to be in a feminine state as often as possible and be able to properly manage female incarnations. There are only four of them - a mistress, a queen, a girl and a mistress, so our female task will learn to master them perfectly.

For men, the most alluring female state is the state of a mistress. It is the state of a mistress that helps to attract a man to life. A woman attracts the attention of men only in the state of a mistress, a state of slight excitement and high from life. A man reads and goes to the fullness of female energy, so he reacts to a woman filled with sexual energy. The lover is sensual, but at the same time mysterious, she does not tell information about herself. But if he immediately receives this energy, and the woman remains in the state of a lover, and the relationship either does not develop further, or develops according to the scenario of lovers. Therefore, it is at the beginning of an acquaintance that it is important to be able to be a lover, then other incarnations come into play, but I will tell you about this another time. In order for you to learn how to be a Mistress correctly, I offer you a small cheat sheet to help you.

So, for the state of the mistress is important!

Feminine look:
- clothes
- linen
- shoes
- decorations
- makeup
- hairstyle
- aroma
Movements and mannerisms:
- easy gait, small step
- concentration on your body, on sensations / awareness
- slowness/relaxation
- fluency of gestures
- graceful head turn
- velvet voice (from the stomach)
- staring, languid gaze
- posture
- smile
Silence, active listening
- desire to sing
Body
- health care
- skin care, hair, nails, heels
- exercises to maintain tone, flexibility, stretching
- all kinds of spa treatments, massages
Sexual energy:
- be always ready
- show initiative
- get sensual pleasure
- know your body and be skillful
- know the husband's fantasies
- looseness / frankness: share your fantasies, talk about your feelings and desires
- attraction: erotic undressing / dressing, dancing

Internal filling
- attention from the female chakras (heart or uterus)
- free from thoughts head
- positive joyful mood
- the joy of feeling your body and movement
- the ability to receive pleasure: from food, conversation, touch, aromas, oneself
- sense of self-worth, self-love
- sensitivity: to give/receive pleasure, energy and love - disinterestedly
- feeling and awareness of one's own hidden power
- inspire action
- gives a feeling to her husband that he is the best
- lack of interest in the assessments of outsiders
Creative Energy:
- loyalty
- creativity
- artistry
- talent
- creativity, any
- activity
- enthusiasm
- brightness
- passion for hobbies
- ability to dive
- generates ideas
- opens new
- originality
- spontaneity
- resourcefulness
- charm
Graceful surroundings:
- tableware
- bed sheets
- accessories
- home clothes
- music
- women's films, books, magazines
Practices:
dance mandala
cleansing fire meditation
fire element practice
walking without underwear
intimate muscle training
breathing practices (to relieve body clamps)

Believe me, such a woman will not only always be in the center of everyone's attention, but her image will be imprinted in the memory of others for a long time.

How to increase female energy so that men are attracted. Female Attraction Funnel

The funnel is made to fill with energy or to attract a man and favorable events. As you exhale through the sides, raise your hands up and enter the energy flow, joining your palms above your head. We exhale through the mouth, exhaling all the negative. While inhaling through the nose, lower the arms again to chest level. While holding the breath, we turn our hands down and lower them to the level of the center of passion (it is four fingers below the navel), we focus the energy by spreading our palms and connecting our fingers, as if forming a triangle around this center.

As you exhale, open the funnel, raising your arms up and slightly bending your elbows, fingers are connected, the center of the palms is directed upwards. And we begin to make turns clockwise (to the right), breathing is free, we don’t think about anything special, we let thoughts flow freely. Having finished the practice, we close the space by placing our hands with our palms on top of each other, the right palm on top, on the lower abdomen. We thank the space: "I am doing this for the benefit of me and the whole Universe." The funnel is done every day for 21 days.

See other energy practices on the website www.lifeacademy.ru in the "Materials" section.

It would be useful for us women to better understand and learn to respect our feminine nature and uniqueness and strengthen our feminine energy. This is useful for everything - for health, a sense of harmony in oneself, to enhance one's attractiveness, to improve relationships with one's soul mate.

From the point of view of Jyotish astrology, the planet Venus is responsible for our feminine beauty and attractiveness. She is also responsible for the unconditional love for all living things, for the comfort of the ability to enjoy, and even for the beauty of our speech.

And for a woman it is very important to develop sensuality, beauty, the ability to enjoy. It is useful to engage in various female practices that help increase our female energy.

How to increase female energy. Larisa Renard, founder of the Academy of Private Life

Male energy is the energy of struggle and achievement, and female energy is peace and pleasure. Acting on the principle of "I am myself" is a male path, allowing a man to take care of you is a female one. Male energy helps to focus, achieve results. But if there is too much of it, the girl becomes tough, controlling and demanding. She begins to compete with men, to measure will and strength with them. But this struggle leads to nothing. A woman with a skewed male energy suppresses, a man loses his strength next to her, becomes weak and dependent. And the woman herself begins to get tired, get sick and suffer from loneliness. Having taken on all the responsibility, at some point she feels empty and tired, squeezed out and cold. Sexual energy is female energy. This is the energy of creativity and passion, it sets the world in motion, forcing it to develop and change. Therefore, a man is so eager to merge with a woman, he wants to be filled with this energy and realize his potential by creating something material. It can be a movie or a song, a factory or a restaurant, a car or a house - the masculine energy always manifests itself in some form, into which the feminine energy is transformed.

It is quite possible to change the ratio of male and female energies in oneself - with the help of practices and meditations, by changing the style of clothing (skirts and dresses enhance female energy, and trousers block it), as well as lifestyle. Everything that brings joy fills a woman. Therefore, it is important to allocate two hours for emotions and two hours for pleasure during the day. Melodrama, dinner with friends, concert or exhibition, massage, delicious dinner, creativity help us to fill up with energy. And this is exactly what men expect from us - emotions and pleasure. It is also very important to see your own "inner" woman and man and realize how they manifest themselves in the outside world. Some of us have more passion, some initially have more tenderness, and some have a stronger desire to control and make decisions. Innate qualities are sometimes strongly corrected by education. For example, a five-year-old girl is sure that if you ask a man for something, she will definitely get it. And she easily asks her dad to give her a doll, and an unfamiliar uncle to buy her ice cream. She rejoices in gifts, and men rejoice in her emotions. But if mom thinks it’s indecent to ask, and if a man is ready to give something, it means that he wants something from you, and it’s safer not to accept, then a woman’s innate property - the ability to accept gifts and return emotions - overlaps, and at some point, she discovers that no one gives her anything. In Russia, education has always been aimed precisely at the development of masculine qualities in a woman - purposefulness, will. But it is the mother who teaches us femininity - through unconditional and joyful love for her daughter, rejoicing and pride that a girl was born. You just need to say to your daughter: “What happiness that you are a girl, there is so much joy, love and opportunity!” And give her the right to pleasure, not scolding for exploring herself, but encouraging and telling. If the mother herself enjoys the fact that she is a woman, respecting and recognizing men, allowing them to manifest themselves in a masculine way, then the daughter grows up to be a real woman. And if she considers men worthless, then from her daughter she will make a worsened copy of a man who sacrifices himself for the sake of his family and career.

Men, like a mirror, show a woman what is happening inside her. If she is not sure of her irresistibility, they compare her to others. If she is afraid of losing, they cheat on her. If the will is strongly manifested in it, next to it is a weak-willed, weak person. If inside her a woman is fighting with a man, then in reality she will also fight with men. We get not what we want, but what kind of energy we broadcast. For example, we want a man to make decisions and help, but our inner woman does not trust the man - then in reality the man does not even try to help. Or we complain that we are unwanted, but sexuality is blocked in our inner woman, and outer men do not really show sexual interest. And so on ad infinitum. We need to change inside, remove fears, resentments and everything that hinders us - and relations with men will immediately change. Those that are already there will start to behave differently, or others will appear that are more in line with our expectations.

It is not for nothing that we dwelled in such detail on the causes of low self-esteem. This is one of the keys to how to increase self-esteem and love yourself. Underestimation of one's own importance and merits can be compared with a disease, which cannot be cured without knowing the real reasons. It is useless to go through symptoms like indecision without understanding the real cause of low self-esteem.

There is different ways adjust the attitude towards yourself, love and accept your appearance and character. Some of them are suitable for introverts, others for extroverts. Some are enough for children, others will help adults. There are also gender differences in the methods, but they are not so important: often the same methods help men and women with the same problems.

If a person feels that low self-esteem prevents him from living (and in most cases this is exactly the case), it is necessary to start working on himself as quickly as possible. Correction of self-perception will take more than one day, so you should prepare for many months of work. You should start by reading the advice and recommendations of experts. So a person will be able to understand what is happening to him, choose the most comfortable technique.

The simplest advice from a psychologist is a written reflection technique. Often a person carries a load of past problems for years, internally experiencing it daily. Try to write down everything that bothers you and why you don't accept yourself 100%. It will not be easy: you will have to formulate the most painful thoughts. Then make a list of what you have achieved. Be objective and do not hesitate to write what you are really proud of - from a certificate without triples to long hair.

There are no "too small", "insignificant" merit. Each one matters.

After compiling these two lists, you will realize that you are a much more successful and worthy person than you used to think about yourself. You will see that you have come up with most of the problems yourself, you will understand what needs to be abandoned and what to work on. This exercise will help both men and women.

Low self-esteem is fraught with the fact that a person allows others to assert themselves at their own expense.

Exercises and training

Work on self-esteem should be systematic, so a variety of exercises will be useful. The simplest thing is to record all your achievements daily and pleasant words to your address in a large notebook. After just a couple of weeks of regular recording, you will see that your life is full of pleasant moments that you used to miss before.

A good exercise is "stop the negative" or "stop the comparison". If one of the sources of low self-esteem is the constant replaying of bad events or comparison with other people, try to block each new onset of negative thoughts with the question "why am I thinking about this now." You may find yourself running away from difficult decisions avoid drastic action. For example, instead of sending your resume to a more prestigious job, you remember a painful rejection or start comparing yourself to a “more successful” classmate.

There are also courses and trainings to raise self-esteem. They can be useful for extroverts who are able to solve problems in a circle of like-minded people. Here you can communicate with other people, experts, find support and new friends. But keep in mind that the problem of self-esteem cannot be solved without personal effort. This is work on yourself, which cannot be entrusted to other people.

How to increase female excitability. The benefits of herbal medicine

Plants strengthen health, help increase libido. There are many natural helpers. Among them, you can easily find those who can return the happiness of intimacy, intimate attraction of partners. It is necessary to determine which herbs are suitable, taking into account possible negative effects. Phytotherapy will replace drugs, protect the body, there are no contraindications.

• Creeping anchors. The grass activates the growth of the hormone - estrogen. It is able to increase female libido. A preparation containing grass, Tribestan, is available in the assortment of pharmacy kiosks.
• Golden root (or rose rhodiola). A tincture of alcohol (vodka) is prepared from the plant. To activate female feelings, it is enough to drink 2 tablespoons before an intimate meeting. Feelings will be bright and rich. Tincture is contraindicated in high blood pressure.
• Sage. It provides a woman with a relaxing effect. As a result of this, women increase sensitivity to caresses, excitability, and all aphrodisiacs of the body work. The pharmacy offers sets of packaged dry medicinal raw materials.
• Ginseng. Natural stimulant and stimulant of sexual desire. The strongest and most commonly used. Preparations based on medicinal plant can increase the level of sensitivity.

How does a man feel feminine energy. How is the exchange of energy between a man and a woman?

A man and a woman exchange energy even when their relationship is platonic and there is no relationship between them. physical proximity. Feminine energy nourishes a man, inspires him, inspires him and makes him courageous, strong, and courageous. And the masculine energy relaxes the woman, soothes, pacifies. How does such an exchange of energy between a man and a woman take place in life?

A woman transfers her energy to a man when she takes care of him, when she thinks about him, believes in him. Of course, if a man and a woman make love, then a channel is created between them, through which energy flows from the woman to the man. It is the strongest and reliable way to dissolve in it, to surrender not only with the body, but also with the soul. But even without physical intimacy, a woman feeds a man. She cooked dinner for him, gave part of her strength to him. Did a massage - nourished him. I ironed the clothes - I put my energy through it.

How does a man return the "debt" to a woman? Through your help, protection, love. When he admires her beauty, he energizes her. When he tells her that he loves her, she feels uplifted. When he gives her time, attention, shows signs of attention, a woman becomes happy. This is how a man and a woman mutually support each other, giving a part of themselves.

But it happens that a woman gives her strength to a man, and the man does not give her anything in return. And, unfortunately, it happens all the time. Then the woman very soon feels miserable, tired, exhausted. She may begin to feel blues, apathy, depression. In what cases does a woman not receive anything from a man in return?

• If she is given to a man when he does not yet have strong feelings. Then he loses interest in their relationship, disappears, shows indifference, turns on ignore. Accordingly, the woman, through the channel that was formed during their proximity, continues to feed the man with her energy, but does not receive any return from him. Therefore, there is no need to rush with intimacy, delay this moment as far as possible, especially since it depends on the behavior of the woman;
• When a woman lives with a man in a civil marriage (cohabiting), and he does not want to take any responsibility. She gives him her energy along with cooked food, cleaned apartment, washed clothes, and he, in turn, continues to live a carefree life. For women, this situation is very exhausting and unhappy;
• When a woman works and earns money on a par with a man, and he does not want to help her around the house. In this case, there is a clear imbalance in the energy balance;
• When a woman continues to live with a man if she finds out that he is cheating on her. It is one thing if she finds the cause in herself and changes herself, thereby changing the situation, and another thing if she simply suffers, tormented by resentment and a sense of revenge. Very often, in such situations, women begin to get sick, because they do not have enough energy to heal both the soul and the body.

It should also be said that the exchange of energy between a man and a woman occurs even when they are just friends and despite the fact that there is no sex between them, the Svadhisthana chakra is still involved, which is responsible for sexual pleasure and procreation. That is, they may not even think about flirting, but on a subtle level, sex is already happening between them. Which, by the way, once again proves that it does not exist.

So think about who you give your valuable female energy to? Does he give you this energy back? Not only your happiness, but also your health depends on it!

Women's energy for men. Feminine energy, lunar energy.

The energy of a woman is directly opposite to that of a man. This is lunar energy. Unlike solar energy, which glows and burns, lunar energy cools and soothes. The woman's gaze is oriented inward. The only source of happiness for a woman is a successful relationship - with her husband, with children, with friends, with parents. And although in our time, women themselves sometimes take on their fragile shoulders the male responsibilities of earning money and career self-realization, deep down a woman cannot become happy, having conquered even the steepest pinnacle of business, if at the same time she is unhappy in the family.

Lunar energy gives a woman the necessary strength to fulfill her feminine responsibilities to preserve the family, take care of loved ones, and raise children. She gives her calmness and rationality, which a woman passes on to her husband in difficult situations in the form of mental support and the necessary confidence that everything will be fine. With the help of lunar energy, a woman creates an energy resource in order to survive even the greatest difficulties.

I think you understand that the power of a woman is different from the concept of power that is familiar to all of us. It does not consist at all in entering burning huts. The strength of a woman allows you to hold the family together. The strength of a woman creates a protective cap on a subtle plane that protects household members from adversity, accidents, other people's negative emotions and messages. The inner strength of a woman inspires a man to achieve heights and succeed financially. The strength of a woman, through her intuition, suggests the right decisions and warns of danger.

The strength of a woman is like a powerful anchor on which the ship of her family's well-being rests. But this concept is energetic, subtle, intangible, not visible to the ordinary eye. It is the strong female energy that attracts a man like a magnet and keeps him close. And here external factors, to which we often assign the main role, do not matter. That is why it is very important for a woman to be emotionally and energetically filled.

Unfortunately, the time in which we live does not favor a calm and measured way of life. Constant stress, the frantic pace of life, the desire for material well-being and success, makes a woman exhausted and exhausted. We are tempered and become stronger, but this is a masculine force that only harms a woman and gradually takes over the natural feminine. Therefore, if you want to stop and take a step towards your original femininity, you must, first of all, realize in which direction you should move, figure out whether your actions correspond to the goal that you would really like to achieve. In fact, it may turn out that the right road leads directly in the opposite direction.

To understand the essence of the difference between male and female nature, I suggest you look at the list of those factors that help overcome stress, energize and create a filled resource state in men and women. You will see how different they are. This list will also help you understand if you are looking for a resource for yourself in the right place or if you are mistakenly trying to conquer someone else's peak.